Kenz
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At 5:30 AM, aboard Royal Caribbean’s Voyager of the Seas off the coast of Fiji, American passenger Bobbi Waterman stood on the empty deck, mesmerized by the sunrise’s amber glow on the ocean. She was one of only two people up that early. The other, a stranger, was quietly enjoying the view as well. As the two exchanged a few words about the beauty of the moment and the tranquil ship, a bond began to form.
It was 2013, and Bobbi, a trans woman in her 50s, was still male-presenting. She had recently lost her wife to breast cancer and was struggling with grief and her own gender identity. The other passenger, Tam Asbury, a non-binary Australian in their 40s, was dealing with their own challenges—a difficult separation from their husband.
What began as a brief conversation blossomed into a deep, three-hour exchange, as both shared their grief and struggles. Bobbi found comfort in Tam’s empathy, while Tam opened up about their uncertain future. By the time the sun fully rose, the two had connected in a way neither had expected, and they parted ways feeling grateful for the encounter.
Neither could have known just how significant that morning would turn out to be.
It was 2013, and Bobbi, a trans woman in her 50s, was still male-presenting. She had recently lost her wife to breast cancer and was struggling with grief and her own gender identity. The other passenger, Tam Asbury, a non-binary Australian in their 40s, was dealing with their own challenges—a difficult separation from their husband.
What began as a brief conversation blossomed into a deep, three-hour exchange, as both shared their grief and struggles. Bobbi found comfort in Tam’s empathy, while Tam opened up about their uncertain future. By the time the sun fully rose, the two had connected in a way neither had expected, and they parted ways feeling grateful for the encounter.
Neither could have known just how significant that morning would turn out to be.